You CAN have your cake and eat it

Dive Deep Into
Ethical Non-Monogamy

with Rosie Kay

Honest advice about swinging, alternative relationships and human nature. Helping people successfully navigate the heavily stigmatised world of swinging.

Ethical Non-Monogamy needs to come from a place of mutual respect, love and honesty
and should never be seen as a last resort.


Hello, I'm Rosie!

the girl behind ThisKindaGirl.

I’m a non-monogamy and swinging lifestyle coach. My mission is to banish the stigma about ethical non-monogamy and who the swingers are.

I’m here to help people talk about their sexual needs openly so they can have meaningful and satisfying relationships built on trust and honesty.

I am the founder of and the creator of the TKG Club community. 

I am a trained Relationship Counselor who specializes in Ethically Non-Monogamous relationships. As well as running a successful Non-Monogamy Coaching Business– I have helped hundreds of couples and singles find their way in the lifestyle; my perspectives on nonmonogamy have been featured in articles found in the New York Post, The Sun, The Mirror and Women Own. 

I have appeared on Podcasts, including Sexy Show, Turn Me On and Later Dater. I regularly write articles on ethical non-monogamy and how to navigate alternative relationships for Medium. I also have a Kindle book on Amazon: How To Talk To Your Wife About Starting Swinging. 

In 2023, my work as a coach was featured on Channel 5 TV Documentary Adults Only. I have hosted workshops at leading UK Swinger Clubs and collaborated with large-scale Lifestyle event companies. 

Over the last ten years, I have learned that there is not a one size fits all approach when it comes to relationships. And that we as humans flourish when we put aside traditional ideas about what society dictates our lives should be like and start approaching relationships and sexuality from a different angle.

Being Ethically Non-Monogamous has brought an all-around lighter feeling to our relationship. We have a complete level of freedom and communication that we've adopted into our regular life.

Starting in the swinger lifestyle
doesn't have to be scary

I will take you from a nervous newbie to a sophisticated swinger in no time!

Rosie is an encyclopedia of swinger knowledge! ~ Previous Coaching Client

Coaching for First Time Swingers

For some people getting started in the lifestyle is relatively easy, whereas for others, getting involved in the swinger scene is not as straightforward as simply turning up at a club.

We are all different and unique. What feels right for one person might be the opposite of what another enjoys. With this in mind. my guidance and support are tailor-made around you, your relationships and what you would like to achieve.

Join TKG Club - Community for Genuine Swingers

It’s ok not to know where to begin when starting swinging. TKG Club is more than just information about the lifestyle. It’s a community, its guidance, and created with you in mind. TKG Club is going to facilitate your involvement and support you on your journey. You will go from where you are now to being where you want to be with ease. 

I believe that being Ethically Non-Monogamous is to go on a journey where you never stop discovering, exploring and overcoming obstacles. I am still learning and with the TKG Members, I share my experiences of swinger clubs I visit and what I get up to. 

I’ve grown in confidence since joining TKG Club and adressed a lot of my initial fears. I've also shifted my attitude and outlook towards the swinger lifestyle. Your a gem, thank you for making TKG Club.

Guides for Swingers

If you are on the outside looking in, it’s no wonder that you too want a slice of the emotional intimacy and excitement that comes with this lifestyle. After all, exploring other sexual possibilities without jeopardising your relationship? Being able to have sex with others whilst enjoying the security of your relationship? Who wouldn’t want that! But how do you go about it the right way?

It took me 10 years to learn how to swing successfully, and I know that looking online or visiting a club can be extremely daunting if you have never explored the world of Ethical Non-Monogamy. I want to make it easy for you!

Swinger Success Signature Course 

Are you ready to discover the secrets of my most successful clients? 

This isn’t a quick-fix course, neither is it designed to ‘turn your wife into a swinger.’ 

My Swinger Success Signature course is designed to teach you the skills you need to navigate all aspects of the swinger lifestyle with ease, and it has been created for both couples and single people. 

Swinger success signature course:

Because there’s a lot more to it than turning up and taking your clothes off. 

Are you struggling with any of these? 

  • You want to start swinging, but it all feels so daunting 
  • You want to visit a swingers club but have no idea what to expect
  • You are scared that being involved in the swinger lifestyle could potentially jeopardise your relationship

Can you can relate to any of these? 

  • You signed up for a swinger dating site but feel as though you are continually being overlooked.
  • Constantly comparing yourself to others either online or in clubs.
  • You have faced rejection when applying to swinger clubs and parties.
  • You feel as though you might have to choose between the lifestyle and your relationship.
  • You find yourself moving at a pace that is too fast for you and don’t know how to slow things down.

Getting involved in the swinger lifestyle can be really daunting, but with the right guidance and support, it doesn’t have to be. 

Unlock the secrets of my most successful clients in my 8 week course, for singles and couples, hosted by me, Rosie Kay. 

Click to find out more about The Swinger Successs Course.


Swinging can’t save a bad marriage. If you are facing difficulties within your relationship that stem from trust issues and cheating, then swinging won’t remove the problem.

Coaching for Couples >>>

No, but when you start discussing swinging within your relationship, you open up a whole new platform for honest discussion and conversation.

Swinging advice for Couples >>>

When you are met with negative stereotypes, challenge them. If a single guy says to me ‘you think I’m like all the rest? Let me show you I’m different’ I would be instantly intrigued.

Swinging advice for single men >>

As a single girl in the Lifestyle, solo swinging is something that I know quite a lot about, from attending parties and events alone to meeting couples for dates. I believe that women who choose to get involved in the Lifestyle alone appreciate what it means to own their sexuality and are usually pure hedonists.

Swinging Advice for Single Women >>>

TKG Club is more than just information about swinger clubs.  It’s a community; it’s guidance, it’s created with you in mind. It’s going to facilitate your involvement the the swinger lifestyle and support you on your journey. You will not only learn how to find swingers but how to be a success in the lifestyle; how to have a rock solid relationship or be a sexy single swinger! 

Learn more about TKG Club >>>

Here's to the swinger's success!

Join TKG Club and start engaging with other genuine swingers in the lifestyle!