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How can you start swinging?

It’s ok not to know where to begin when starting swinging. One question I repeatedly receive is ‘how do I start swinging?‘ well, I think I have the answer. TKG Club is more than just information about the lifestyle. It’s a community, its guidance, and created with you in mind. TKG Club is going to facilitate your involvement and support you on your journey. You will go from where you are now to being where you want to be with ease. Inside you will find guides for UK swinger parties and events for younger swingers. You will also get access to past workshops, you can join me live for Q&A Sessions, and ask me anything! Yes, a n y t h i n g!

‘I’ve grown in confidence since joining TKG Club and addressed a lot of my initial fears. I’ve also shifted my attitude and outlook towards the swinger lifestyle. You’re a gem; thank you for making TKG Club’

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How can you visit swinger clubs?

I believe that being Ethically Non-Monogamous is to go on a journey where you never stop discovering, exploring and overcoming obstacles. I am still learning and with the TKG Members, I share my experiences of swinger clubs I visit and what I get up to. You can discover more about swinger clubs near you, how to visit them and who you can expect to meet and also how to use swinger websites to find new clubs and parties. 

“This is not only intensely erotic, it also opens a window into the scene, which is helpful because before I saw this, I had only imagination (which is good in itself) but to be able to ‘be there’ via your post is illuminating!” ~ KN, TKG Club Member

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Where can you find other swingers?

I often refer to the social side of swinging and how important it is to feel valued and accepted by those around us. The TKG Club Community aims to do both these things. I have met many different swingers over the years, and they have all shared one thing in common; they have all started as newbies. They have had the same thoughts you have had, doubts, fears and reservations and experienced mixed emotions. 
In TKG Club, you are not alone as there are members, just like you. 

I’ve done a deep dive into the TKG Club content tonight, and my favourite sections are, How to be a successful swinger and
Attending Your First Event – YOUR Questions Answered!

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Honest Conversations. Real Connections. Genuine Members.

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Weekly members-only meet-ups

Each week I do a LIVE where I welcome new members, tell you what has been happening at TKG HQ and generally have a chit-chat with you all.

You get to meet new members and catch up with everyone and find out more about each other!

“Rosie!!!!! Your workshop, OMFG!”


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But who am I to tell you about TKG Club?

Hello, I'm Rosie!

the girl behind ThisKindaGirl.

I’m a non-monogamy and swinging lifestyle coach.

I’m here to help couples and singles talk about their sexual needs openly so they can have meaningful and satisfying relationships built on trust and honesty. 

When I first discovered the world of swinging, I didn’t know where to start!

It took me 10 years to learn how to swing successfully, and I know that looking online, or visiting a club can be extreamly daunting if you have never explored the world of Ethical Non Monogamy. I want to make it easy for you! 

Who is TKG Club for?

TKG Club has been designed with you in mind. If you find yourself on this page, chances are you are interested in starting swinging or want to surround yourself with genuine swingers. You may be a couple who want to start but are concerned about jeopardising your relationship? You may be a single person who wants to get involved but isn’t sure where to find a club? Or you may be wanting to learn how to talk to your partner about starting swinging? TKG Club is a place for genuine, like-minded adults where you can find support from other members as well as essential knowledge to get you started in the lifestyle with ease and confidence. TKG Club is for you if you want an easier way to start swinging. 

TKG Club - Community for Genuine Swingers

for Couples who ...

for Singles who ...

I know what it is like to be a single swinger! 

Scared of going to a club alone? In TKG Club you can ask who else is going to clubs near you and arrange to meet up with them. Great if you are a single guy!

“Thanks for being so open to all your members. The written content is excellent, definitely hope for us single guys at a club!”

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In TKG Club, you  get the best of both worlds. You can find my guides for UK swinger parties and events for younger swingers and also read my reviews and experiences of those parties. I include information for couples, single men and single women, how to visit and who you can expect to meet! But TKG Club is more than just information about swinger clubs.  It’s a community; it’s guidance, it’s created with you in mind. It’s going to facilitate your involvement the the swinger lifestyle and support you on your journey. You will not only learn how to find swingers but how to be a success in the lifestyle; how to have a rock solid relationship or be a sexy single swinger! 

Of course! How it works is like this: 

  • by joining TKG Club, you get access to all my coaching material, (video, PDFs, articles)  that teaches you how to be a successful swinger couple or single swinger. It’s designed to take you from absolute beginner to visiting a club. 
  • join my LIVE monthly members workshops where I answer your questions,
  • join me each week for members meet up events, where you can connect and chat to other genuine swingers,
  • Infomation on parties and events, for singles and couples- where they are and how to visit. 
  • interactions with me. TKG Club is the only place I host my LIVE workshops. 
  • weekly emails from me, 
  • you get to be part of a supportive community of like minded, kinky, adults! 
  • All of this is easily accessable, all in one place, all at your fingertips.

The members of TKG Club all have one thing in common, they all have a genuine interest in Ethical Non Monogamy. Some are couples looking to start on their swinger journey, some are single people who want to discover more about clubs and parties, and some members are  interested in other forms of Ethical Non Monogamy such as a having open relationships. Regardless of who they are and what they are looking for, they are all there as they have a genuine interest. To meet other people and dive deep into the world of Ethical Non Monogamy with me. 

Unlike Discord, TKG Club offers you much more than just chatting. Now, I like Discord, and I do have a Discord community, but what TKG Club does, that discord doesn’t do is it give you a gate way to actually start swinging. Discord is fine to chat to other people, but with TKG Club, you can find out about parties and clubs, learn more about events that are happening, (how to visit and who they are for) get the support and guidence that you need to be a success in the lifestyle style and get access to the answers you have been searching for, from me, Rosie Kay. 

Yes. One great thing about TKG Club is that you can use the knowledge you learn there and apply it to any swinger situation, regardless of where you live. In TKG Club you will learn how to find fellow  swingers, and how to use swinger dating sites to find swinger clubs. I always ensure that the help I provide for my members is universal. Afterall, it doesn’t matter if you live in the USA or the UK, you can still learn how to have a rock solid swinger relationship, or be a successful single swinger. Plus of course, you will meet other members to connect with. And remember, all my LIVE workshops are recorded, so you can watch them in your own time 🙂 

TKG Club is for all people who are Ethically Non Monogamous, and I’m quite sure that some people are looking to date! You can make a profile, upload your pictures and chat with other members. 

TKG Club membership is £25 a month. The reason I decided to make it a paid club was that only people who have a genuine interest in Ethical Non-Monogamy or actually want to learn about swinging will join. One question I kept being asked was ‘We are tired of time wasters and fake profiles, how do we find genuine swingers?’ So I created TKG Club as a  place for people with genuine intentions, regardless of whether they have been to a swinger party or not. It’s not free like Discord as it offers so much more than Discord. From members-only LIVE events to workshops, swinger club information and masterclasses. Plus, Discord has it’s own fair share of time wasters who never chat and engage. In TKG Club, it’s all about community. 

Yes! From reading about my own experiences to posting your own. One thing is for certain; if you want to read what real swinging is like, and what real swingers get up to then you will love reading the behind the scenes content. From foot worship to foursomes, it’s all waiting for you. If you are feeling bold, post your own story or read what other members get up to. 

If you are already swingers, you may be thinking ‘what’s the point of us joining TKG Club, we already know how to visit swinger clubs and are already in the lifestyle? Well, here’s what TKG Club offers you that other swinger sites and clubs don’t. Genuine members with genuine intentions. As it’s headed up by me, I’m pretty good at spotting the fakes! Having been in the swinger lifestyle for many years now, I know what experienced swingers like, and time-wasters are not one! In TKG Club, this doesn’t happen as I’m the one growing the community. Also in TKG Club, you get information about the very biggest and best Swinger clubs, all my reviews and experiences. Heard about a club but haven’t been to check it out? Read my review first. I appreciate how important the social side to swinging is and TKG Club allows you to have that social interaction, without getting bombarded with messages from people with fake profiles, dick pictures and one-line interactions. My members meet ups and workshops are for new and experienced swingers alike. I don’t just talk about topics for newbies, from discussing my worst swinger party experiences, to how to deal with swinger time wasters, there’s plenty for you to enjoy. 


Yes! 100% TKG Club is the only place that I host LIVE events, the only place I do weekly members’ meet-ups and the only place you can access my reviews and read what I get up to! Not only do I post exclusive written content to TKG Club, I also make a video diary series that is only for members of TKG Club. If you want to get to know the real Rosie, then TKG Club is where you can do this. 

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