How Can I Find Swinger Clubs In London?

How Can I Find Swinger Clubs In London?

How Can I Find Swinger Clubs In London? Calling all Kinksters, Lifestylers and Curious Couples in the capital! This is my guide to sex clubs in London. 

Honestly, I feel like a kid in a candy shop when I visit!

If you are keen to get started in the swinger lifestyle, then checking out the clubs online is a perfect way of immersing yourself in the liberated way of life. You may be surprised to discover there are a lot of kinky goings-on in the capital if you know where to look! Discover them here in my guide to finding swinger clubs in London.

Le Boudoir Club

Le Boudoir Club is the UK’s leading lifestyle venue. Situated close to Aldgate East Station, the club offers sumptuous swinger parties in the heart of the city. It is strictly members only, and you do have to apply via the website. The club does, however, cater for single men and women and couples. It boasts a well-equipped BDSM dungeon, a gorgeous bar area and beautiful play spaces. Honestly, I feel like a kid in a candy shop when I visit!

Torture Garden Club

Torture Garden Club is the world’s largest fetish event and regularly hold parties for up to 2500 kinky comrades. Events are not held in one specific venue, and the venue location can change. But rest assured, events are held in London. To attend one of their parties, you have to be prepared to dress to impress and book a ticket well in advance. Be aware; these events are not for the faint-hearted. If you enjoy fantastically elaborate theatrics and all things weird and wonderful, this is your jam!

Pleasures In Kent

This swinger club not only offers 14 play areas, an indoor swimming pool, free private parking, a bar and a dance floor, it also provides luxury glamping too! Pleasures In Kent is set in private grounds of the owner’s house and offers parties on a Friday and Saturday nights and events throughout the year. Open to couples, and single men and women, pleasures provide a slice of the swinger action for all involved.

The Penthouse Playrooms 

Probably the largest club I have been to, Penthouse Playrooms markets itself as a ‘European style Fetish Dance Club’. It has a huge range of facilities and they host different events every night of the week! The club, located a few miles outside of Luton city centre, has recently been refurbished and reopened by new owner Emma.
The Saturday night event I attended was open for single girls and couples. The club also encourages Bisexual swingers, and T-girls and hosts dedicated events for both. Inclusivity is paramount here, and it appears that the organisers are aware that for their guests to have a great time, they have to feel they are in an environment where they can express themselves fully.

Killing Kittens

Female-led and female-founded, Killing Kittens has been a top choice for couples and single women since 2005. Highly regarded as hosting the worlds most exclusive, decadent and hedonistic parties, killing kittens aims to empower women and adventurous couples. They hold parties worldwide, including London and have an exclusive members-only access area on their website. To sign up for their events and membership, check out their website, where you will find all the details. It is worth checking out their site as they also boast their own app where you can meet other members and get chatting! It is important to remember that all interaction is female-led, this includes the app!

Skirt Club

Skirt Club is on a mission to build an all exclusive female environment where women can explore their sexuality with other like-minded female members. Their members are hand-picked professional women who enjoy expressing their sexuality and wish to do so in luxurious surroundings where the emphasis is on building connection and female discovery. You have to sign up to be a member and upgrade to access more features on their websites, such as exclusive online events, a members-only area, and details about worldwide events.

 Klub Verboten

if you like your sex smelling like leather, PVC and latex, then this might just be the club for you!

Verboten was created in 2016 by founders who wanted to create a safer space for alternative human interaction and freedom for people who enjoy self-expression. To say that Klub Verboten is kinky is putting it mildly. Not for the faint of heart, if you like your sex smelling like leather, PVC and latex, then this might just be the club for you! They also offer an online shop, which provides some great fetish wear, and you can sign up on their website to hear all about their latest events. Klub Verbotten doesn’t have a permanent site for parties but instead announce the location closer to the date. (I find it all adds to the overall theme)

Are London Swinger Clubs Expensive?

Prices do vary for London swinger clubs as some offer a more ‘exclusive’ experience than others. With exclusivity, (think small numbers, high-end locations, champagne) comes a higher price tag. As a couple, you can easily pay over £100 for a ticket and single men can be charged at least £130. Not all parties are this expensive; however, Pleasures in kent are a more affordable option, not to mention open to singles and couples alike. At the time of writing, their single male entrance ticket was £40, for a single lady, it was listed as £15.

You may have to pay an annual membership for some clubs and pay for tickets to attend parties on top of this. Whereas with others there is no membership and just the ticket fee to pay. 

Are Swinger Clubs In London Safe?

You’re never going to be expected to strip off down to your lingerie, engage in anything you don’t feel comfortable with or join in with the extreme exhibitionists.

Most clubs, especially the more upmarket ones, have security staff that monitor who is entering and leaving the club and are on hand to assist any party-goers who need assistance. The hosts/hostess of the events spend time talking to their guests and are quick to come to your assistance if need be. Suppose a situation ever did arise where you felt uncomfortable or perhaps witnessed excessive drinking or drug-taking. In that case, removing yourself from the situation and reporting it to either the security staff or the management is the best course of action. Don’t be tempted to take matters into your own hands as it could result in you being removed from the club or party. 

Can I Attend Swinger Clubs In London As A Single Person?

Yes! Regardless of your gender or sexuality, swinger clubs in London cater for men and women. Whether you are Bisexual, straight or gay, a member of the trans community or just don’t prefer to conform; you will find a suitable club! If you identify as female, and you are single, then chances are you will find it a lot easier to get tickets into clubs. Single males are accepted in swinger clubs, but places are limited. You will find if you are a single woman, you will be welcomed with open arms.

How To Reach Swinger Clubs In London?

My preferred method of transport when swinging is either by Uber. Although I have taken public transport in the past, (Thiskindagirl HQ is close to one particular club), I found that getting the tube or night bus after a night of swinger sex really isn’t cool.

You don’t want to be standing waiting for the bus in the dark! You could, of course, book a hotel close to the venue, but sometimes it can be hard to know where this will be if the event’s location details aren’t released until later.

Can I Drink In Swingers Clubs?

Some clubs serve alcohol; some don’t. Some have a bring your own booze policy and in some, the ticket price may include champagne. It may be tempting to have a drink beforehand to steady your nerves but to be honest; most clubs are strict about who they let in, so don’t jeopardise your chances by turning up drunk!

Are There Private Swinger Parties In London?

Yes, but you have to be invited. Most private parties are arranged through sites like fab and SDC where members can search for other swingers local to them. They will then get chatting, exchange details, have a vanilla date and then if they want to, meet for a private party. 

Will I Be Expected To Get Involved At A Swingers Club In London?

No one will ever expect you to get involved, especially if it is the first time at a swingers event for you and your partner. You can remain fully clothed, seated on a sofa watching the action if that is what you feel comfortable with. Likewise, some attendees get straight down it and head to the nearest spanking bench or bed.

You’re never going to be expected to strip off down to your lingerie, engage in anything you don’t feel comfortable with or join in with the extreme exhibitionists. Lots of people attend swinger clubs for very different reasons, and some venues are more specialised than others. A good host will always take time to show you around, and in my experience, party hosts and hostesses are very friendly. Once you have arrived, they will explain the rules and club etiquette that is to be followed. All the organisers want is for you to have a relaxed time and leave having had a few of your fantasies fulfilled, whether that’s enjoying a blowjob through a glory hole, or watching your lady getting it on with another girl.