Guide To 8 London Swinger Parties

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 Guide To 8 London Swinger Parties

 

Guide To 8 London Swinger Parties. Do you know what one of the best things I find about living in London is? 

In the centre of London, you don’t have to travel very far to find precisely what it is you are looking for.

The city caters to all tastes, requirements and indulgences. In London, you can lead a perfectly everyday life without rousing any suspicion; you can work your 9-5, have your Ocado delivery arrive at your door and meet your vanilla friends for a late brunch at a cafe on Friday. And then, come the weekend, you can dress in your finest rubber, fasten your gasmask over your head and put your submissive boyfriend on his leash. Together, you can head to one of the capital’s kinkiest and inclusive swinger club parties for some serious adult playtime.

But what makes this different from any other city in the UK? Well, the answer is this; In the centre of London, there is such a wide variety of events on offer, you don’t have to travel very far to find precisely what it is you are looking for. You can have a craft beer in one of the many trendy bars in Shoreditch, before waving good night to your friends and heading in the direction of one of Londons debaucherous sexy secret spaces.

London Swinger Party

Nestled between gleaming glass offices, and traditional townhouses, fetish clubs, swinger clubs, and BDSM parties all sit, awaiting your arrival. If there was a tube map of London’s swinger parties, you might be pleasantly surprised to discover how central and unassuming they are. 

What To Expect At London Swinger Parties? 

There are many reasons why people swing and what they wish to experience by doing so is unique and personal to them. No two swingers are the same, and even if you are in a swinger relationship, your kinks and desires will be different from your partners. You must choose a party, event or club that is most suited to your needs, as there are a lot to choose from when picking the perfect party. From hardcore BDSM to the female-led, woman only clubs, here you will find something to suit all tastes and budgets. 

The club also encourages Bisexual swingers, and T-girls and hosts dedicated events for both.

Traditional Sex Parties/ Swinger Clubs

Not everyone is into BDSM, fetish or kink and especially if you are new to the scene, you may find some of these style clubs a little offputting. Rest assured, not all clubs require you to wear a rubber gas mask to gain entry, here are a round of a few of the more ‘regular’ sex parties in London. 

The Penthouse Playrooms 

Probably the largest club I have been to, Penthouse Playrooms markets itself as a ‘European style Fetish Dance Club’. It has a huge range of facilities and they host different events every night of the week! The club, located a few miles outside of Luton city centre, has recently been refurbished and reopened by new owner Emma.
The Saturday night event I attended was open for single girls and couples.

The club also encourages Bisexual swingers, and T-girls and hosts dedicated events for both. Inclusivity is paramount here, and it appears that the organisers are aware that for their guests to have a great time, they have to feel they are in an environment where they can express themselves fully.

Pleasures In Kent 

This swinger club not only offers 14 play areas, an indoor swimming pool, free private parking, a bar and dance floor, it also provides luxury glamping too! Pleasures In Kent is set in private grounds of the owner’s house and offers parties on Friday and Saturday nights and events throughout the year. Open to couples, and single men and women, pleasures provide a slice of the swinger action for all involved and is inclusive for swingers of all ages.

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If you like your swinging to be a more straightforward affair, then Pleasures In Kent may well satisfy you. Due to their village location and being lucky enough to be surrounded by acres of countryside, Pleasures makes a great weekend swinger destination. 

Before you touch, kiss or give a blowjob, always ask first!

Exclusive Swinger Parties 

Upmarket, exclusive swinger events can also be found in London if you know where to look! These sexy gatherings in luxurious surroundings often sell out quickly and gaining entry to them can be a little tricky. 

Le Boudoir Club

Le Boudoir Club is the UK’s leading lifestyle venue. Situated close to Aldgate East Station, the club offers sumptuous swinger parties in the heart of the city. It is very much an ‘after hours’ venue and the parties can run to 2 am! It is strictly members only, and you do have to apply via the website. The club does, however, cater to single men and women and couples. It boasts a well-equipped BDSM dungeon (complete with a spanking bench and lots of restraints), a gorgeous bar area and beautiful, stylish play spaces. The club hosts themed events throughout the week, such as knicker free Fridays and ladies in lingerie parties.

Female Focussed Events

If you haven’t heard of Killing Kittens or Skirt Club, then I’m afraid you have been missing out! These members-only events take female-led swinging and female sexuality to a whole new level. As you will discover, killing kittens is open to couples and single girls, whereas Skirt Club is strictly for females. If you like witty conversation, in women’s only surroundings (men are not allowed anywhere near Skirt Club events!) then head over to their website!

Killing Kittens

Female-led and female-founded, Killing Kittens has been a top choice for couples and single women since 2005. Highly regarded as hosting the world’s most exclusive, decadent and indulgent parties, killing kittens aims to empower women and adventurous couples. They hold parties worldwide, including London and have an exclusive members-only access area on their website.

London Swinger Party

To sign up for their events and membership, check out their website, where you will find all the details. Since the introduction of the lockdown regulations, killing kittens have moved their main events online. However, it is still worth checking out their site as they also boast their own app where you can meet other members and get chatting! It is important to remember that all interaction is female-led; this includes the app! 

Skirt Club

Skirt Club is on a mission to build an all exclusive female environment where women can explore their sexuality with other like-minded female members. Their members are hand-picked professional women who enjoy expressing their sexuality and wish to do so in luxurious surroundings where the emphasis is on building connection and female discovery. 

You have to sign up to be a member and upgrade to access more features on their website, such as exclusive online events, a members-only area, and details about worldwide events. 

Fetish Clubs and Events 

If female-fronted sex parties or traditional swinger clubs aren’t your things, you may find the following fetish and kink clubs to be more to your taste. Perhaps you are a master or mistress and enjoy keeping your sub naked, bound and unable to join in without your permission? If this sounds like your bag, these clubs are for people seeking kinky, inclusive sex and focus on human interaction, regardless of your gender or sexuality. One word of advice, though, do read the rules and outfit requirements carefully before you step inside any of these events. 

Klub Verboten 

Verboten was created in 2016 by founders who wanted to create a safer space for alternative human interaction and freedom for people who enjoy self-expression. To say that Klub Verboten is kinky is putting it mildly. Not for the faint of heart, if you like your sex smelling like sexual leather, PVC and latex, then this might be the club for you!

They are currently offering an online shop, which provides some excellent fetish wear, and you can sign up on their website to hear all about their latest events. Klub Verbotten doesn’t have a permanent site for parties but instead announces the location closer to the date. 

Torture Garden Club

Torture Garden Club is the world’s largest fetish event and regularly holds parties for up to 2500 kinky comrades. Events are not held in one specific venue, and the venue location can change. But rest assured, events are held in London. To attend one of their parties, you have to be prepared to dress to impress and book a ticket well in advance.

London Swinger Party

Be aware; that these events are not for the faint-hearted. If you enjoy fantastically elaborate theatrics and all things weird and wonderful, this is your jam! You can expect lavish performances, and getting involved in the action is thoroughly encouraged.

Crossbreed

Crossbreed is a fetish swingers club that encourages freedom of expression through hedonism. They champion collaboration and work to break down social constructs and stigmas. Open-minded, respectful and inclusive people who share a love of kink, queerness, individuality and positivity are all welcomed! 

Crossbreed parties are music-focused, and guest DJs are invited to play along with the resident, Kiwi. Sign up on the website to get up to date information about events. During Lockdown, their events moved online to provide a platform where members of the kink community can come together to express themselves.

 

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