You CAN have your cake and eat it

Ethical Non-Monogamy Coaching
for Single Women who want to get involved
in the swinger lifestyle

Ethical Non-Monogamy Coaching for Single Women who want to get involved in the swinger lifestyle

with Rosie Kay

I will take you from a single woman with limited or no experience in ethical non monogamy, to a woman who is in charge of her own sexual experiences!


When I first discovered the world of ethical non-monogamy, I didn’t know where to start! All I knew was that being monogamous with man wasn’t for me and that part of me was craving something more. Only, I didn’t understand what this was or how to achieve it without ruining my existing relationship. When I had that Initial conversation with my partner, I was terrified of what might happen. Even though I wanted to explore the possibility of Including another person in our intimate life. I was very apprehensive.

Suddenly I was overwhelmed with fear, lack of confidence, insecurity and self-doubt. Like so many people. I believed that being ethically non monogamous meant make or break for my relationship.

Getting to the stage where I can now offer my advice and expertise has meant overcoming many obstacles, and it has been a long process.

I have learned that there is not a one size fits all approach when it comes to relationships. And that we as humans flourish when we put aside traditional ideas about what society dictates our lives should be like and start approaching relationships and sexuality from a different angle.

Over the last ten years, I have discovered how to navigate the lifestyle and overcome many obstacles and difficulties.
I am here to help you understand the world of Ethical Non-Monogamy and enjoy the lifestyle with confidence without guilt or shame.

Hi, I'm Rosie Kay!


I believe there is no right or wrong way to enjoy ethical non-monogamy, and just because you are single, it doesn’t mean you have to miss out! 

For some people getting started in the lifestyle is relatively easy, whereas for others, getting involved in the swinger scene is not as straightforward as simply turning up at a club.

We are all different and unique. What feels right for one person might be the opposite of what another enjoys. With this in mind, my guidance and support are tailor-made around you, your desires and what you would like to achieve.

My ethical non-monogamy coaching session for single women is for women who want to feel empowered by taking control of their own sexual desires. If you thought swinging was only for couples, then think again! 

Single women are embraced and encouraged in the swinger world, but it can be difficult to know what to expect.

Not only will I teach you how to get involved in the lifestyle successfully but I will also help you understand why you want to experience it in the first place.

I am a single woman. And I know exactly how it feels to be a single girl attending clubs, meeting other swingers and getting involved in a world that is heavily dominated by couples.

I know what it is like to feel daunted at the prospect of getting involved, which is why I offer my coaching to single women because I know how scary it can be as a single female. 

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The swinger lifestyle has given me the opportunity to be my full sexually free self and the chance to thrive as an exhibitionist.

My aim is to help single women navigate their way successfully around the heavily stigmatised world of swinging.

I will help you with:

All my consultations are strictly confidential and non-judgmental.
I offer a personal and professional service, to listen, guide and support you.

One of the best things? Finding myself as a person outside of just being 'mum'. The lifestyle has brought me my own identity again.

A roadmap to your swinging success as a single woman

Why DoWomen Enjoy Swinging? Swinging is hugely liberating, and in our first session together, I will teach you how to successfully navigate the world of ethical non-monogamy and how attending events doesn’t have to be as daunting as it first seems. I will teach you how to use it to boost your confidence, regardless of how you want to get involved in the lifestyle. We will discuss why women get started in the swinger lifestyle and what you can expect by meeting couples or other single swingers. I will share with you all the ways that you can enjoy ethical non-monogamy.

Is Swinging Safe For Women? A question that I am asked frequently, and one that cannot go overlooked! As a single woman, I will teach you how to stay safe whilst exploring ethical non-monogamy and advise you on what clubs and events are most suitable. I will also teach you how to meet people from swinger dating websites and share my top tips on red flags to look out for. I know what it is like to be a single female swinger, let me teach you all I know. 

Understanding Emotions When Swinging As A Single Woman. I will teach you how to understand emotions that arise when swinging and coach you to overcome jealousy, insecurity and fear. I will share insights into human nature and how our bodies and minds respond when we meet other people in the lifestyle. I will teach you how to reconnect after swinging and process the emotions you may have experienced.

I will help you create a Perfect Personal Profile. Using my expertise, I will craft the perfect swinger dating profile for you and use all my knowledge and experience to make a profile that represents your personality online. From knowing how to be appealing to couples to writing engaging messages to keeping time-wasters at bay, I will create an attractive, engaging and alluring profile that will set you apart online. 

Attending your first event is an exciting experience, and in this session, I will share with you all the steps you need to take to make sure your first experience is a positive one. Regardless of how you like to play or who you are looking to meet, I will teach you how to have confidence, charm and charisma. From what to wear for the first time, meeting other swingers, and walking into a club. When it comes to visiting an event, theres a lot to discover! You will learn exactly what to say to other attendees, how to communicate your rule and boundaries to them and how to move from polite conversation to playtime, should you wish to.

We've witnessed each other grow as people, not just within the Lifestyle but how we view ourselves, certain situations and how we overcome things as a couple.

From a nervous newbie to a confident swinger in just 5 weeks!

Coaching consists of 5 sessions with me, preferably over the course of 5 weeks. Following on from each session you will receive a write up in the form of an email that covers key points from each session that you can refer back to.

By the end of the 5 sessions with me, you will have a thorough understanding of what being in the swinger lifestyle entails for single women, how you can stay safe, how to find events and parties and how to get involved in the lifestyle by either attending clubs or attending private parties.

  • You will go from being a single girl with limited or no experience in ethical non monogamy to being a woman who knows exactly how to make ethical non-monogamy work for her! 
  • You will go from never visiting a swingers club, to gaining an understanding of where they are, how to visit them and how to be a success in the lifestyle. 


You could. But chances are you wouldn’t have the best time. As you can imagine, many people want to meet single female swingers and because of this, visiting a club for the first time can be extreamly overwhelming.  Unless you know how to attend a swingers party as a single woman, (which is what I will teach you) you might end up having a negative experience.  

Yes. I have visited many different swinger clubs; I know what each looks for in new members and which are great for single girls. Clubs trust my judgement and respect me as an expert in my field. If I say I have been working with a client on a 1-2-1 basis, and I recommend you to them, they are far more likely to grant you a membership. 

No. My coaching stems from my experience and knowledge as a relationship counsellor. The fundamentals skills that I will teach you in my coaching sessions are not available on my site or other content forms. The coaching that I offer is bespoke and deeply personal based on my client’s individual needs. 

Yes, after each session, I will be available via email to answer any of the questions that you may have, and I will give you a write up of each session detailing the key points that I believe you need to work on. 

Being Ethically Non-Monogamous has brought an all-around lighter feeling to our relationship. We have a complete level of freedom and communication that we've adopted into our regular life.