Can I use discord to find swingers?

Can I Use Discord To Find Swingers?

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Can I Use Discord To Find Swingers

Can I Use Discord To Find Swingers?

Yes! Is the short answer, but there’s a lot more to it than that! 

This article will tell you where you can find swingers on Discord and how to use it to meet genuine people who are in the Lifestyle.

Who Is Thiskindagirl Swinger Discord For?

It doesn’t matter how you identify, who you like to swing with or how, on my Discord, we are all there to support one another and share information about the Lifestyle. 

My Discord server attracts single people, those in long-term relationships, men, women, and couples. Whether you are straight, Bisexual, Gay or hate a label, we are all different and choose to express ourselves differently. Some people are there to learn and ask questions. Others share their experiences of the swinger lifestyle and explain how they got into the scene. Others join to find and connect with swingers in their local area.

Can I Use Discord To Find Swingers?

Discord is proving a popular place to find swingers, kinksters, people who have Ethically Non Monogamous relationships and those curious about the Lifestyle. 

It doesn’t matter how you identify or who you like to swing with or are curious about swinging with; we are all there to support one another and share information about the Lifestyle. 

Is Discord Safe To Use? 

A team of moderators monitor my Discord, and, along with myself, we seek to verify members before they are given access to all of the channels. We know how frustrating it is when people seek to get involved for the wrong reasons, that is why we make sure that people are only using the server who are genuinely interested in the Lifestyle. 

However, you don’t have to be experienced to get involved. Many people are just starting their swinger journey. All we ask is that you have a genuine interest. My moderators are available for you to reach out to at any point with your questions, concerns or queries. If you wish to raise anything about the server or its users, just drop them DM. 

Another thing about my Discord is that I only have one designated picture channel. Explicit pictures, inappropriate images and GIFs are not welcome, and you can only be part of the Pictures group if you are actively involved in the chats

What Can I Expect From Joining? 

You can expect to be involved in a sociable and sexy Discord channel. I am active on the server and regularly message my members and take part in the discussions. We pride ourselves on providing a non-judgemental environment. 

Is It Free To Use? 

100% yes. 

How Can I Use It To Find Swingers? 

Due to the fact that it’s a discord server made by a swinger, for swingers, it’s safe to say that you will find singers on Discord. 

The easiest way to find other swingers is by being active on the channels and then asking to upgrade. Once you are upgraded, you can see more channels, join more conversations and become part of the community of swingers. You will discover who is nearby and who they are looking for. 

What Are The Channels? 

I have several different channels on my Discord server, the first being the lifestyle lobby. We also have a dedicated Q and A channel where you can submit and answer questions, a social channel for swinger related chat- great for meeting other swingers. A picture only channel where you can post your sexy camera work and a kink community channel– see, I said my Discord was inclusive. There’s also a new channel that I have recently added called ‘swinger club information’ but more on that later. 

How Do I Gain Access To More Channels? 

When you first join the server, you will be welcomed into The Lifestyle Lobby and sent a DM to your inbox that explains how the server works and what you can expect to find. The DM message explains that to gain access to more channels; you have to tell us, TKG and my mods, a little bit about yourself and what brings you to Discord. You can do this in the lifestyle lobby; please drop us a few sentences about yourself. This is so that we can be sure people are joining for the right reasons. 

Can I Use Discord To Find Swingers?

As I mentioned previously, I don’t expect everyone to be experienced swingers; all I ask is that they are respectful and open-minded and have an understanding of what my Discord is all about. 

How To Get Upgraded On Discord

Getting upgraded means, you will be granted access to more areas within the server. To gain access to more channels and discover more about the swinger scene, you do have to be an active member. 

All you have to do is reach out to a mod or me via DM and request to be upgraded. We then look at your engagement within the Lifestyle lobby and whether you have shared any details on there, explaining why you have joined the server. If you have, then happy days, welcome aboard; we will grant you an upgrade to get involved. If not, we will probably send you a message to your DMs, checking you are in the right place! 

Here is a quick tutorial on how to get upgraded

1. Click the link to Discord.

2. Make a username.

3. Receive the DM, read and understand it.

4. Join the Lifetsyle Lobby. Please drop us a few lines about yourself in there and why you have joined.

5. Speak to other members in the lobby and engage with them.

6. Drop me or one of my Mods a message asking to be upgraded. 

Not sure what to write in the Lifestyle Lobby? 

Get involved in the discussions, share your experiences, or discuss who you would like to meet and what kind of swinging are you interested in. Still not sure? Here is my glossary of swinger terms to help get you started! 

What Makes My Discord Different? 

My Discord is different. Not only is it headed up by me, Thiskindagirl, but I have also recently added an exclusive channel to the server that is especially for finding out about swinger clubs, parties and events. In the swinger club information channel, members can post details about clubs and events they have attended and offer their reviews of them. 

From London swinger clubs to parties and events in the far north of England, if you want to find out about swinger clubs happening near you, this is a great place to start! To access this channel, you do have to be an active member. 

How Do I Join?

Joining is easy! All you have to do is click this link and enter your details. Choose a username for yourself and create a password. After that, you can log into the Discord server and start getting involved. 

Don’t worry if you have little to no experience of swinging; we all have to start somewhere. By being honest and genuine, you will soon find that our members are happy to share with you advice and guidance. The more active you are on the server, the more you will gain from it. 

If you are still unsure about joining, I have several YouTube videos that I made detailing how to use the server; check them out! 

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